What Men want but won’t ask in a relationship


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Now let’s get started! Our first interesting topic (which has actually being a great demand by our readers) is themed “What Men want but won’t ask in a relationship”

Have you ever thought about it –  reasons why men are not the greatest communicators especially with their spouse/dates/girlfriend. We all know that Men can hang out with their friends and have deep convos about their relationship and women but when it comes to bringing it up face to face with their dates/spouses, they go mute. Do we know why? LOL


1. He likes to think you know how much he cherishes you!

Men want but don’t dare to say, either because there are too shy, modest or proud. He cannot miss any of those reasons. He can be awkward. Words may fail him. He does. You can see it in his attitude, feel it in his silences.

man cherises wife


2. Show him respects – Do not belittle him

You don’t have to act like a maid before showing you respect him. Men are very sensitive, and don’t like it when you belittle him, even as a joke. He wants respect, not mocking.  He may be bold, but he likes that you respect him for what he is… flaws included!

Men loves to be respected


3. Men love to be admired!

He enjoys being flattered. He really does. Just look at him with admiration and he will be happy. A guy likes nothing more than making his girlfriend swoon – whether in life or in bed.

men loves to be admired


 4. Men love to be encouraged

He will never admit it, especially not in front of his pals, but your man has doubts. He sometimes wakes up in the middle of the night, just looking out at the ceiling with dark thoughts. In these times of anxiety, what helps him most is your support. He needs you to support him and his decisions.

men loves to be encourage


5. He wants you to be independent

If you are always waiting for him to call or don’t have any life outside of him, your man might end up finding you a little boring. He likes that his girl has projects of her own (he’s even proud of it!) and that she can take care of herself. You don’t have to work in an oil company but atleast you find something doing to keep busy.  Of course, he likes to protect her too, but he doesn’t want to cut her wings off. He likes a girl who has a life of her own, not someone who stops breathing when he is not around.

men loves women to be independent


6. Men love to feel desired

By you…and by others, sometimes! Although he will never admit it – especially to you! – he likes to see that he can still get another woman’s attention…never forget that. And don’t be afraid to send him a few dirty looks too. He loves it.

men love to be loved


7. Men love to feel relaxed

For him, weekends are made to relax. And relaxing doesn’t mean throwing a dinner party, going to the movies, cleaning up the house or running errands. Relaxing means doing nothing. No planning allowed.

men love to relax


8. Men love to talk but not gossip

Your man is not afraid of discussions. Pick a subject that he likes and he will turn into a real chatterbox. Gossip is not his cup of tea and he will never go on and on about stuff that happened in the past. Dwelling on old stories and bad-mouthing are not his things. Don’t hesitate to tell him how your day was, but forget the details…he really doesn’t care about your co-worker’s hair colour.

men love to talk to lady


9. You cannot control or change his ways

No, he doesn’t want to change…unless he decides so. Most men love to watch sports like soccer.  If you try to turn him into someone he’s not, don’t be surprised to see him flip out.

men loves to watch sports


10. Men love to feel he can protect you

He feels right at ease when he is protecting you. Although he likes the fact that you are an independent woman, he wants to know he can also protect you. And he’ll do just about anything for that. He wants to know he can stand up for you and take you out of a mess when the situation requires it.

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11. He wants Sexts

He loves it when you send him naughty sexts outlining your evening plans for him. He wouldn’t dare to admit it, but these little notes make his head spin.

men love to sext


Sit back and relax. Study this tips pretty well. It would surely create a change in your relationship. Next topic is gonna be a BLAST!! Click this to  Like our facebook and follow us on Twitter for freshest updates on “Dating/Relationships”. Enjoy your day Fans!  *Wink