I’m in deep shit over my relationship. I’m a 35-year-old woman and met a hardworking 43-year-old man. We’ve been dating for five months now and still haven’t slept together.
My problem is that in the beginning of our relationship, he asked me how many men I’ve slept with and worried about how he would react, I lied and told him I’d slept with seven men. But after a few months, I could not live with the lie and finally decided to tell him the reason why I still haven’t slept with him yet.
I told him I didn’t want to make love with him because I was scared that he’d lose respect and eventually leave me just like all the other men I have slept with in the past. At this point he asked me again, just how many men can you remember that you have slept with, to which I replied 43.
His reply was, “Hmm, one man for each of my birthday”…
And from that day on, I never heard from him again. I don’t get it, why is it that when men sleep around it is ok, yet when women sleep around, they’re sluts? Why can’t women have their fun too?
This is a story of one lady called Bubu from Abuja. A lesson for all our ladies out there!!!