Must Read!!! Charly Boy’s Response To Pastor Adeboye’s Recent Marriage Advice

Controversial celebrity and father of 9 children from different women has come out to pen a response to Pastor Adeboye following his recent advice to spinsters and bachelors.

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The Area father had the following to say

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For the past few days, pastor Adeboye’s advice to youth on marriage has been trending all over the place. I suspect that the good pastor’s yarns tells me that he is a man suspended in time, between old and new school.

Don’t get it twisted, in as much as I flow with his definition of a good woman, from his statement I see that the obvious way to his heart is through his stomach and of cause through prayers. Good, No wahala.

However our amiable pastor rubs it in when he starts to yarn Akpata, ” Marry a warrior, if a girl cannot pray for one hour, don’t marry her. Don’t marry a girl who is lazy, who cannot cook. She needs to know how to do chores and cook because you cannot afford to eat out at all times” Hummm na wa!

Really?

Seriously?

So if my wife to be can’t rant, chant, shout and generally carry on as a prayer warrior, praying for a whole hour, the woman doesn’t deserve a wife status. Abi?

Oga pastor, that one na missyarn. Over praying does not make one a better husband or wife, because the world especially Naija is filled with Fake people and “Fakest” pastors. Does a man having a job guarantee that he will make a good husband?

Does a woman knowing how to cook guarantee she will make a good wife? Haba.

Ok I get it, The Nigerian god has an ear infection, so we must shout and pray for hours because that’s the only way he may listen to our prayers, right? I know that a man is suppose to marry a helper and not a cook or a house girl. By the way, is anything wrong with encouraging your young male congregation to learn how to cook and do chores too.

“Do not marry a worldly lady” what the heck does that mean? Is it about being materialistic or just being fashionable, looking nice. I guess in your book we can’t be a good Christian if we got swagg and we are trendy. Judge not pastor.

We must all not look like Deeper Life people to have a personal relationship with God. By the way, if you want to start writing your own commandment you may as well write your own version of the bible for your congregation. Na una way.

Being married should never define a man or a woman. Marriage in a few years anyways, will be out of fashion. Being married is only nice if we are lucky to pick a partner who will be our friend, if not, that maybe hell on earth. All of us must not get married if our threshold for nonsense and garbage is low.

The world is obviously changing and we are no longer in the 60s. Who wants to be suffering and smiling. Most importantly marriage should not be a milestone for anyone. Yes o.

Like I always say, it will take two to tango. Marriage only works when partners are determined to make it work. It can never be a merit badge, or a status for happiness. Many of us are enslaved in our myopic mindset that makes a mess out of what should really be a good friendship.

So Oga pastor Adeboye, watch your yarns because a lot of people lookup to you, Biko. I don talk my own.

*I agree with some aspects of Charly boy’s response though…My argument remains that being a cook or a good one should not define why a man marries a woman…A man should marry for love and all else will come.

Otherwise the Pastor should balance his report and preach that women should not marry men who cannot make love or Kiss and Yes that would amount to testing before Marriage,otherwise I dont see why a man should test a woman’s wifely skills before he decides to marry her.

#WifeNotCook PLEASE!

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12 Comments

  1. Nothing wrong with what Pastor Adeboye said and its a good advise to the children of God. Its end time, we need a prayerful partner/spouse to help us remain in christ and grow spiritual. As a follower of christ if you marry an unbeliever or weak christian, it will certainly draw you back spiritually,its hard to change someone. Just a piece of advice to those that are determined to make heaven.

  2. Mind you, Mr. Area father, Pastor Adeboye was talking to children of God not someone that has lost his moral value like you. 9 children from different women!!!

  3. I think some people do not have mind of their own unless someone tell them what to do and justice take it easy bfore judging someone else( freedom of speech )

  4. I agree with Charles Oputa in this one. Pastor Adeboye’s advice is not biblical. God did not give those conditions for marriage in his word -the bible. Yes, he gave Adam a job before a wife. That was because he was creating the world. Isaac was in his father’s house when a wife was gotten for him. Jacob was working before he married…. different people with different stories. That is how it should be. The criteria for marriage is in Ephesians 5:25-33, 1 Corinthians 7:7-30, etc there are many.

    no where was cooking skills, ability to do chores or praying for 1 hour non-stop(!) mentioned. The husband is the protector and high priest of the home. he should pray more. he is the representative of Christ. The wife is his helper or helpmeet. helping him in all his assignments given by God in his word. so she should be able to pray too, care for him, protect him etc. meanwhile the duration of prayer does not guarantee the efficacy or the answers. its faith in God, love in your heart for your fellow man that foster answers to prayers. I you pray for 1, 2, or 10 hours and you carry unforgiveness, lust, malice etc any sin in your heart… lai lai no answer until that is resolved btw you and that person then with God.

    praying and checking time for the duration will not only distract you, it will make it mechanical. God is our father. Talk to him as you want to and for as long as you wish. a minute, second, an hour, a whole day… no prob. He is your father, tell him anything as you like for as long as you like, He will hear and answer you when and how he wills.

  5. Area father or whatever u are call,De
    ealier u give ur life to Christ and understand spiritual things de better for u.

  6. I thought he said that he has given up this nonsense? What moral justificationhas he to talk to a man of God in the name of freedom of speech? Well, the end is here already, let he that has ears to hear , let him heat what the spirit is say to the churches. I am not judging you Charly, but you need Jesus in your life. He is the only one who can help you clean up your mess. Good day.

  7. All I know is that God is the God of the ancient, he can never never change because of mankind. The bible told us to pray without season. That we should pray at all times. Because the enemy roameth to and fro seeking whom to devour. That we should be watchful and prayerful ; and put on the whole amour of God. That is the only way we can withstand the fiery darts of the enemy. This is not a matter of Psychedelic nature or I too know. Ask yourself why is there high rate of divorce today. The bible says that the wisdom of men is foolishness unto him. That he uses the foolish things of this world to confound the wise. A world is enough for the wise.

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